Hi Bronze, welcome to PC. Although it does not read as if there are any specific P/C violations, the scenario does come across as unprofessional. I agree with the other members in terms of your options and how to address the matter...if you so choose, with your T.

Frankly, the whole situation strikes me as a bit odd. And it sounds as if she has a crush on you. Also, if I am understanding the situation correctly, it seems as if you are paying your own T to keep her amused and in charming company.

It is our Ts responsibility to manage boundaries, create a safe trusting environment, help guide us as their clients/patients...not the other way around.

Best wishes to you. You seem like a very sweet, intelligent person that already knows the answers to the questions

R