She participated bc I would not talk to her. At all. The first words I spoke were "I hate you." She replied "I know" and kept building her sand world, while I kept messing it up.

I did not participate until she added a single gate to her world, at which point I slid off the couch to the floor and added all the rest of the gates in and put my little bear on the top of the mountain behind the gate. I was trying to terminate but she's so insuffrable telling me she wouldbe waiting for me anyway. Then my feet led me there anyway and I was angry that I was weak and I went when I didnt want to, so I wouldn't talk. I wouldt even throw stuff at her, even though she gave me the "throwing" toys to do so and normally I get a kick out of throwing the nerf balls at her head. I wouldn't interact at all. I admit I was being a little *****.

edit: I actually found a figurine that represents her in my mind. I will show her on Monday. It is the Fairy Godmother in Cinderella. lol. Think shell be offended?