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Old Aug 24, 2012, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
Thanks LMW! I always saw CBT as something for healthier people, those who can tolerate frustration etc. My T is a Self-Psychology/Kohut kind of guy so I'm sometimes surprised with the hard line he can sometimes take w/me.

I've been lucky though, more often than not he can be very indulgent with my neediness, which I have found helpful.

Yeah I'd rather talk about my internal life than goals right now.

What made you decide that cbt was right for you?
Well it's more like I chose him not the therapy style. I found him on psychology today a year early and he referred me to one of his therapist and I never showed. Something made me contact him a year later and he took me. It's kind of like it was meant to be. He says he's eclectic, and in a way he is, but his CBT dominates. Hes always been more than tolerant of my neediness. Umm I would say I'm a very far cry from one of T's healthy clients. He's so well versed with his CBT he's able to keep me under control...most of the time.
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