<font color="purple">I undertsand that....

what I meant is that I may honetsly feel something is not triggering but then later find out that someone else was triggered by it... or vice versa....

There really is no way to always know....

There are even titles that I have found triggering that others probably didnt , some had the icon and some didnt... I just chose not to read that thread....

I am not disbuting the fact that there needs to trigger icons by any means , just explaining that everyone has different trigger and what may be a trigger for some may not be for others....

for example: The word "cousin" is a trigger for me.... not many people would think that that would be a trigger and I agree, but for me it is.... But most people probably wouldnt icon it ...
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