As my t never really explained this or anything about what happens during the therapeutic process, I am wondering why it is important that you attach to your T. I can understand that their is an element of trust involved but why must we attach?
I attached to my T and she didn't really like it, at first she encouraged me to ring and text, I didn't abuse it but suddenly it was not ok to do that anymore. I got very attached but didn't abuse her privacy or genorousity, I honestly can't see how this attachment in therapy helps as it only hurt me.