Qoute Autotelica [I recall that you once responded with shock when I revealed that my therapist told me where she lives and occasionally asks if I've checked out her garden lately. My therapist obviously has looser boundaries than most, but she also knows that I have pretty rigid boundaries...that my curiosity is limited JUST to her garden. She knows that I'm much more interested in the kinds of trees and weeds growing in her yard than I am of who is behind the living room curtains. If your therapist gave you permission to check out her garden (why does that sound so dirty?!), do you think you'd be able to keep yourself from peeking through the windows? With a secure enough relationship with your therapist, you'd probably find it easy to do. You just have to find someone willing to trust you enough so you can find out. ]

My new T who I have only seen twic who is old T's supervisor has told me a lot already about herself. I haven't asked her anything personal but she told me she is married and has kids, where she was going on holidays and why, maybe this was to make me open up- I dont know but in the two times I have seen her she has told me more than my last T ever told me in the year and a half I seen her.
Becoming attached to anyone scares me because the two people girls I became very atttached too abused me and hurt me and it scares me so now I have a barrier around me and I don't want to get attached and then they leave me too which is what happened with last T.