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Originally Posted by autotelica
This seems like a good chance to find out if attachment is the problem, or the intensity of the attachment.
I don't think I have attachment issues (other than the fact that I don't attach well outside of the therapeutic setting). But I think I would have a problem with a therapist who didn't share personal information with me. It surprises me when posters reveal that they don't know if their therapists are married or have children. It seems natural to me that a therapist would reveal the basics of their life.
Maybe I would find myself crossing boundaries if had a more private therapist. Maybe you will be comfortable with boundaries now that your new therapist seems to have looser ones than the others.
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I always found it wierd about my first T, I never knew Anything about her and it drove me mad obsessing over her, wondering was she married and did she have kids. I awlways got the feeling she was afraid of opening up to her clients like she had some bad experiences in life. I think she had a lot of issues with suicide and I think I scared her when I talked about it, I scared her so much the last time that she terminated with me the following session.
Her behaviour was very strange now that I have met wiht two other T's