Thanks special K,

I know about transference and all and no, my T doesn' t remind me of anyone that I know. But I can see why you asked.

But he is the kind of person I would be attracted to inside and out in the real world. But I know I can't have him. But that is okay because I can enjoy the mutal attraction without being with him.

I do know i have had some negative transference before, we have talked a lot about transference. He said he thinks I really do like him and it isn't about transference. We just have a ton in common. He has even told me that if he wasn't my T , he would enjoy a social relationship with me, but he won't go there with me because he doesn't want to undo the progress I have made.