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Old Aug 24, 2012, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by rainboots87 View Post
Being pushed in the right way fires me up to show I can do it. It HAS to come from a compassionate place, but sometimes I do need to be told things directly. I don't always like it, but I know it helps me tremendously. I loved my old T's blend of challenges and compassion.
I totally agree! When I'm being difficult and not wanting to attempt to accomplish anything.. he takes his time and makes tons of suggestions, and always asks if I agree. After I give him the dumb I didn't understand anything you just said look (when of course I did)... He ALWAYS says okay ORR you can just do nothing, and be stuck where you are at now? Do you like that idea better? Yeah that's his way of being direct.
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