people are to a certain extent...

but then there are little things...

for example...

you say 'help me' and that you have a very important question... other people post because they like replies too... it is nice to respond to other peoples threads and show them you care about them which means they are more likely to make an effort to care about us.

can be hard to know what to say sometimes...

but sometimes it can help to read others talking about similar things that they are going through.

though it is slightly less instant gratification wise...

that was an example of a little thing you can do to help improve things... i'm not sure where you are at...

how much do you want to change? to be able to keep friends? to not cut? to not have the lows?

there is a personality disorder forum here too...