Hi Sky!
I don't see him much during the warm months because he runs outside, but during the winter I see him maybe 2 or 3 times a week. We don't talk to each other other than to say Hi. He won't be social with me. He does have other clients that work out there (because they told me), so I don't think he can avoid not running into us because we live in a small city.
We have talked about this a lot, there has been some uncomforable situations that have happened , mainly me worring about his health and him dying, but we have worked through them. This situation has caused some very good discussions and therapy has resulted. Plus he has seen me become social butterfly at the gym, when before therapy I was a wallflower. So this situtation has given him and I a lot of insite about me and my progress. But of course I have seen some of his negative qualities too. I am mainly joking about crossing the line with him. I am married for 13 years with 2 kids, and I don't do affairs. But I do have fun fantasing about it, but it will not happen in real life. I know that 100% , he is way to ethical and has a huge reputation in the communitity. I am sorry if my thoughts are upsetting anyone.
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