Looks to me like there are plenty of reasons for being depressed. I understand your not wishing to burden your husband with your issues but that's what marriage is.... and he seems like he might be willing to help you work through this. He certainly has time to go to therapy with you from time to time.

Can you find a new psychologist to talk with in the new area? Also, if the medication isn't helping yet, then you shouldn't say it is. I don't mean to sound insensitive, but since you already have a suicide in your past familial history, you might have the same tendencies to keep too much inside? Share. Ask for help. Discuss your concerns. Allow others to try and help. Some answers might be easy.

If you move for the spouse, what does that do for you and your work?

Yes, lots of decisions... but remember to take care of YOU first.

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