deep breaths... i think sky is trying to post in support of people who felt triggered. i'm not at all sure that this thread is *solely* about you, though i brought up your post as an example, yes. people were saying that it is becoming more common that people aren't trigger warning their posts and so the issue is greater.

it can be hard to support people without lashing out at their perceived persecutors. of course who is attacking, who is persecuting, who is the victim is in the eye of the beholder...

i kinda like the group dynamics drama triangle kinda stuff... interesting... and in differentiating between ones responses and the state of the world. hard skill to learn. just 'cause someone doesn't see it doesn't mean they *intend* to judge others though ;-)