So I did it. I finally created a profile an signed up to get maybe with women. Funny that as I go brought my matches I am more confident in what I like and don't like in a woman's looks. When I had guy matches I would tend I say o myself, well, I guess he's cute or maybe I should meet him and see how it goes. I think I might know what I want in a woman more than a man. Who knows...Big step though- wish me luck!