So, I haven't stuck to that plan. The friend I mentioned isn't answering the phone. Another friend invited me to an ice cream social! Whee. But first I had to pick up my eldest, and then take him to his sleep-over. Then I was having a fun time with a match on EHarmony. Some matches seem to fizzle out but this guy- so far- seems a lot like me. I like his answers. yes we aren't meeting yet. Yes I'll be careful. Just having fun. At least its a break from thinking about how jerky "him" is.