((( southernbell90 )))
If you have access to the internet, look up the terms gaslighting and brainwashing ... Then if anyone tries to minimize how damaging emotional abuse is, you can tell them to blow it out their you know what ...
I endured emotional, verbal, physical and sexual abuse by my mother for 3 decades ... Of all the abuses I suffered, the emotional and verbal have been the most difficult to heal from ...
I hope you can escape sooner than later ... The longer you're in it the more damaging it's going to be ...
I can assure you of one thing though ... You are not any of those things she's telling you ... She's those things, and worse ... She is projecting it onto you because of her own pathetic and miserable failures in life ...
Sorry you're having to suffer through this ...

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Pfrog!