Okay well it's not a soles lesbian site, but It has an tion. I used to be on that same site for men recently....and now I'm trying to see if I am bi or gay (I am at least bi). Here is the thing....some of the guys are now all confused as to why I changed my profile. It's hard to explain. I simply told him I am bi and I want to open my search. However if he isn't comfortable with it, that's understandable. And he should just let me know.

Now I just feel like maybe I should tell all the guys who I was talking to and still somewhat am, just I case they have the same questions. Here I thought I was taking a good step, but now Idk. And....no one has even viewed my profile. I guess no one even wants to message me what a lower I am!