I've never been very comfortable talking about sexual stuff (acts/activities) with most people---my mom never talked to me about it growing up, I just had to figure it out. I used to have a friend or two that I could talk about the most sexually taboo stuff and she could relate.

But now, I don't really have anybody like that. There are things I want to ask other people about, "Is this part of *sexual stuff* normal?" I don't mean it in any kind of violation way. More of.... what can I do to make this part of my relationship with my bf better?

I can't even get into it on here for concern it might be triggers or just borderline vulgar, lol.

I've never liked the words penis or vagina. I think they're awful names for body parts. I prefer clitoris anyday.