Hi Wi,
I'm sorry you had to deal with people "assuming" things about you, especially people who don't know you personally.
I am happy for you that you had a great date, make that 2 great dates! That had to have been very uplifting for you.
I was reading your original post late last night, and I was just baffled by it. I wanted to reply, but I couldn't think of what to say, so I'll just say how I feel now. You are BEAUTIFUL, both inside and out. From talking with you I see beauty, and when I saw your photos in the gallery, I thought WOW, that is one beautiful and sexy woman! (By the way, I am straight and I'm not hitting on you, lol

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So keep on doing good things for yourself, continue to go on those dates, and have fun. Most of all, relax. It's all good!
Love,
Sujin