Unfortunately you might have to grit your teeth and spell it all out for her... my therapist didn't seem to take any of my hints about things - I think sometimes they don't like to assume, you know?

Have you asked about if it's okay to email and if she got/read them? Some Ts don't like to communicate that way, or don't have time to send a reply... maybe she was waiting for you to bring these things up in person? It's horrible to feel ignored, but that might not be the case here...

I don't think it's about confrontation, but if you could try and have an honest stright-up conversation face-to-face, you might be able to clear some of these things up? Or, perhaps this T just isn't a good fit for you, sometimes people just don't 'click' with each other - if that's the case maybe try to find someone else who can help you? I'd be pretty sensitive to rejection too if I thought my T went cold on me after a personality test/diagnosis - but it might not be what it seems, you never know.

I wish you luck