nah she replies but then in like 3rd she stops and most of time is important. like this time we were talking and i said "btw im borderline right?" she says "why the question?" i say "i think u mentioned that name other time but i didnt pay much attention and yest i was checking online..." she didnt reply so i clearly showed i was upset saying "good answer". u think she even answered today? she then ignores and asks about the appointment schedule. today she not even did that. but at afternoon i was like "i have to cancel tomo appoint caz i dont have money" u think she even talked about the subject or the fact im upset? lol she said "we can book wednesday if u can" but i dont think ill be going this week.
Quote:
Originally Posted by just_some_girl
Unfortunately you might have to grit your teeth and spell it all out for her... my therapist didn't seem to take any of my hints about things - I think sometimes they don't like to assume, you know?
Have you asked about if it's okay to email and if she got/read them? Some Ts don't like to communicate that way, or don't have time to send a reply... maybe she was waiting for you to bring these things up in person? It's horrible to feel ignored, but that might not be the case here...
I don't think it's about confrontation, but if you could try and have an honest stright-up conversation face-to-face, you might be able to clear some of these things up? Or, perhaps this T just isn't a good fit for you, sometimes people just don't 'click' with each other - if that's the case maybe try to find someone else who can help you? I'd be pretty sensitive to rejection too if I thought my T went cold on me after a personality test/diagnosis - but it might not be what it seems, you never know.
I wish you luck  |