I spoke to my T today and she said she didn't realize how much it upset me and because she knows I get anxious around most males she thought it might be that. I explained that I tried to put in down to him being unwell until Friday when it got too much. She said that I was right that she didn't know him so couldn't assume he wasn't dangerous although knew that he wouldn't be allowed in group if he was. She's based away from the centre and in the DBT program. The groups that he's in are from the psychosis program which is at the same place I go for DBT. So my T isn't sure about what to do as its the psychosis program staff who can help not DBT. It's confusing cuz I'm in both programs. Anyway she told me to call the person I know best in the psychosis program and see what she suggests. We talked through what I'd say which was good. So I've left a MSG for someone from the psychosis program to call me back. So hopefully she'll help.