It sounds to me like it's both fear and avoidance.

Have you told him to leave you alone, I can understand the fear part to the fact that he almost seems obsessive? The avoidance is definatly understandable because you don't want to feel eyes on you ect..

I definatly think it is both.

I hope he leaves you alone, it definatly sounds like an uncomfortable situation, you almost have to put your foot down and tell him how it is even if if hurts him, no one should live like that.

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