By the way, Setso, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 19. And he was a "nice guy." Very nice, actually, until he went to the army and dumped me, which then I met an *** who I married because I fell into the "No one will ever love me," trap. Four years later I was divorced but found my husband who I did meet online in a game. But, I was 25 years old, so it was easier to close the gap of long distance.