Like I stated at the beginning, I posted this on another forum prior to here. I should have edited it a little because it's been almost 2 months now and we've made our move. I wrote my husband a long letter about the BPD and my obsession. My hope was he'd read it and start an actual conversation that I could continue. What happened? Nothing! He said he read it and understood but said nothing else, and even though I told him I think of this person constantly and he was at the root of how I was feeling, he's still asking me what's wrong. Two months....still constantly there. I never intended for any of this to happen. I never knew how unstable I'd become. I was just trying to help my daughter. I wrote him a long email....haven't sent it yet. He's 19.... I just want to feel as though someone "gets it" and that I'm not completely alone.