culture / subgroup whatever. family. perhaps i should have said family.

do you distinguish between questioning and being impertinent?

how about discussing and arguing?

how about arguing and throwing wobblies?

sorry if i've upset you that wasn't my intention. point is that the thread was started with a question... or an idea really... so people were posting what they thought.

how come people stop caring what people think just cause john has spoken?

i don't understand...