Well, the truth is that there are no fairy tales. And people who think the have the fairy tale suddenly wake up and realize they were living in a dream or a delusion or something like that. That's why the relationship forum is the most active one. Hell, I joined this site because of the relationship forum....

Love may happen all by itself but it needs to be tended to like a garden. Relationships take work. Not just for peopel wtih bipolar but for everyone.

I say healing is key. If you heal this area will get better for you, also.