I did not like Remeron at ALL I posted in that post I believe called Lorazepam and Remeron. I shared my expierence with it there.
I've been on a few different medications, and for me personally the one that worked the best for me and still continues to is Effexor XR. However some people had terrible expierences on it, so I guess I got lucky, aparently it's one of the best medications to be on right now for depression.

I'd talk to your doctor though, figure out your different options.