((((((( HUGS ))))))) - ((((((( HUGS )))))))
Have either one of you two really set down and had a real heart to heart talk about what is causing the burden in him and the distance in you? - for IMO complaints are not ever meant to be NAGGING in nature, but rather a hurting persons only plea left.... a plea of needing to be heard and understood - to be validated, both as a person and as a spouse with unmeet wants / needs / desires.
LoVe,
Rhapsody -