Gosh inkblot I just finished reading this and I'm scared for you. You shouldn't put up with this behaviour. Why should she considor moving? Dont give him the satisfaction!!!!! Definatly go to the police with this. They need to have this on file. I would also tell him straight out that this "fantasy" of his is just that, HIS fantasy and remind him that this never happend. Let us know what happend. I'm thinking of you.

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