I'm sorry things are so bad. When someone is abusive they always make promises or change for a period of time and then they always go back to the original behavior. Only if they truly are sorry and WANT to change then you'll see results. Otherwise it's pretty much impossible to change his behaviors.
I guess the best advice I could give is to get out if he's unwilling to help himself.
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