i have been on dating sites in the past. when i was single, i was only looking for women. then i ended up meeting my bf falling madly in love with him and we have been together now 7 yrs. i did have a gf my 1st one in 09 (yea an open relationship) only lasted 2 mos (long story).

the women i have met on dating sites are so damn picky, *****y, and not worth the time/drama! i would email girls who loved video games, art, etc like me and they ended up being very rude to me. i figured if i email them, we have something in common whether you were my type or not.

i have changed my ads on those sites multiple times to express positivity and kindness while being st8 forward and honest. omg, had so much drama. why is it when u meet someone who has similar interests as you they are mean as hell? it took me 10 yrs to get a gf because i couldnt find any worthwhile when i was 18-19 yrs old it wasnt like i met my bf a man is easier to find wasnt like that.

well, i hope you find what you are looking for best of luck!