you're welcome and I recievce many emails to my email box that I have posted on the many on line support groups in which I am a member of, and pms and in chats and so on around this topic so I know you are not the only one that feels they need or want to either by being fully aware or as an alter go to battle for those posts that you are reading.

When it happens to me its hard to remember that if the person the poster is writing to has a problem with it they will let them know and I need to step back and let them take care of themselfs because when I used to try and step in I found out that the person the poster was writing too actually saw no problem with it. I used to tick off so many people with my butting my nose in and saying to them- I don't like how you posted to so and so, sometimes I even gloated when their posts and threads got removed. Boy was I embarrassed to find out when talking to the person the poster was writing that upsetting post to that they had no problem with what was said to thema and that the person whop posted what I thought had been offending had been right on target with them, and add insult to injury the posts I was glad about getting removed had been at the request of the person I was taunting about having their post removed. I wanted to sink through the floor. I learned my lesson so to speak. Before I let myself mouth off about an offending post either by way of being fully aware or not I rember that the person the offending post is targeted at can take care of themselves otherwise I might end up in another embarrassing situation of assuming what I am feeling is what the people involved in the situation are feeling. So now when I feel like I can't watch it no more I don't sit there and watchit. I take care of myself by walking away from the computer, logging out of the site or reading other non offensive materail.

Hang in there you will get to where you can d that too.