I hear what both of you both of you Princess T and Eliza Jane are saying. I have been pregnant 4 times and miscarried on three of them. My daughter I managed to carry to term was on my second when I was 20 and in college.

I would go home often and cry when someone would ask me if we were trying to get pregnant again. It was just as though someone took a knife and stabbed me in the guts and then twisted it for a while. Recently I have been told that I cannot get pregnant again. It was as though all my dreams of holding a baby of my own in my arms again had died. I cried for 2 days. Babies are really a gift from God and to be valued and treasured.

All the free and unsolicited advice you get can be really hurtful and seldom ever helps. I just want to extend hugs and let you know that I care