Welcome to my club seeker! One day, I turned on my stove top and left a frying pan with a bit of oil on it and went outside to check my laundry for just a second as my element warmed up. My neighbour was outside and started to chat and before I knew it, we had a kitchen on fire and next, the house was on fire and we lost everything.

Not to worry, seeker, hun. Life does go on. You are not alone.