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Originally Posted by pbutton
Granite, i hope it helps to remember that she wasn't horrified because you were telling her about your childhood, but because she cares about you and the things that happened to you were awful. She can handle anything you want to share with her and she can help you.
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i do kind of feel like she was horrified by me.i am working on not feeling this way so it seems i am on a rollar coaster.
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Originally Posted by karebear1
I'm glad you told her granite. You deserve to have some compassion shown to you and to get the help you so badly want. I'm proud that you told her. I wish I had words the way you do. I need to do this same thing, but I don't know how to say what I feel or remember. Thanks for showing me it can be done though. (((((granite)))))
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i know so well how it is to not have words. it has taken me almost 3 years to be able to say this little bit and i am terrified about what it may lead to.you will be able to do it when you are ready
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Originally Posted by Sannah
granite, you aren't horrible. What was done to you was, but not you. |
thanks sannah i will probibly need to hear this a lot. she just looked so horrified by me