I agree with Apt, therapist are not supposed to pass judgement and if your sex life is something she is not comfortable with , yet you are, then she is not the one for you. All that stuff about feeling it in her gut would have put me off too as some kinda hocus pocus. Unfortunately there are therapist out there that run the gamete from Awesome to horrid. If you seek another, I would be upfront about your being a sexually adventurous couple and make sure that was going to be a non issue for them before proceeding.This was obviously an issue for her. Keep posting and welcome.