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Originally Posted by Psychicbaby323
I do this for people. I try to anticipate what they need. .. I am seeing how I feel like I should be meeting ALL the needs of the people around me and in turn I have that expectation of them. That's not possible or realistic and I'm not sure yet why I feel so responsible for others.
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Did you grow up not getting your needs met but had to meet the needs of another family member all the time?
It is healthier for each person to meet their needs but they can get help and support from others.
Some dysfunctional relationships are set up, "I'll meet your needs and you meet mine" where no one meets their own needs.
Do you think that you can meet your own needs or does something stop you?