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Originally Posted by carmasia
I get what you're both saying and agree wholeheartedly, but as hard as it is, we need to remember that we often perceive things that aren't really there or our minds exaggerate things to make us miserable. I know that doesn't make it easier to deal with it, but I'm hoping that keeping that in mind will one day make a difference or some day a light will go off. ~sigh~
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It's hard to know if it's perceived or real, but more often than not in my experience, it's been real. I am attempting not to take it so personally either way. Still I hold to the fact that I cannot trust anyone with my head right now. They have just abused me so much. I refuse, right now (maybe I might change my mind *later* idk) to put myself back in that place to get hurt again by someone I should trust.
thanks,
Billi