lack of support on vast range is the core.discouraged on almost every little thing is not good.for example,if i go out for some activity,i must keep it a secret to her,or i got put down.she's not reasonable at me as i am alone...even when i do something at her place,like making a phone call,reading some papers from outside,writing something,she want a control on me.it has been damn hard and painful that i got the money for her not long before because i touched her conscience.