There are no easy answers, or rights and wrongs. Both of you have issues and only time will tell if you will continue on and try to resolve them so do your best in solving them without sacrificing something precious (ie your children) and if by chance you have to say goodbye, know that the relationship was not a mistake because you both tried and learned a little more. If you find a way to resolve the issues, it will be all worth it. Either way, what sounds like a losing situation will come out as a win win no matter what the outcome is. These are only chapters in our life and not our whole story.

All the best to you and your lady and your children