I remember being younger/around your age. I remember getting caught up and following along and enjoying the attention and feeling guilty and ashamed.

I don't see/think/feel you are a slut. I thank you for your honesty and bravery in comming out to explore/process all of this. Talk to T about it too when you get the chance. I am sorry...

I especially apologize for offering anything more constructive, except that letting you know that you are not alone with these experiences...