Hi all thank you for all the kind words. My children do know about the affair and even met the O/W. My problem is it hit my one daughter so hard that she said she was going to kill herself becauses in her opinion if her daddy doesn't love mommy then he can't love her because she is a part of us both. This really hit me hard to see my children is such pain. I don't ever want to experience that again. It is one of the worst situations to be in. If it weren't for my children i wouldn't be here now. (if you know what I mean) they are the ones that keep me going every day. They love there father and I don't feel that they would be able to cope without him. As for me, well I guess I'm in for the long haul. I am at present studying to get a better job and to be able to support my children in the future.

Keep well veryone and thanks again for all the advice.

Scorpio