I think i have worked out how to deal with this situation, tell me if you either agree or disagree with this...

i think, considering my brother shows no sign of remorse for his appauling behaviour towards me, i think the thing i will do is to tell him he has to tell my dad what he did, it will make him have responsibilty for his actions, and i will tell him that if he doesnt tell my dad...i will. my dad needs to know, and i shouldnt have to bear these feelings, its about time i gave them back to my brother. he abused me when i was 10, why should i have to deal with it when he shows no emotions for what he did. he has to face the consequences of what he did.

i wwill tell him that he has to tell my dad, whatever my dads reaction will be. and i will say that he has to face the punishment for what he did, im no longer going to keep this a secret. for 9 years ive felt the guilty one for having this happen to me, i think its finally time to take the next step towards recovery. whatever the outcome may be.

do you guys agree, please give me your opinions, i will very much appreciate your views ont his matter.

thanks everyone.