I have to agree with Sway there Hippy,
we can't do much here to help you.

again this the section of these forums where partners with personality disorders can support eachother:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=132

unfortunately BPD traits really come up in interpersonal relationships. Support is available for you, and what Sway said about getting yourself into counselling is a great idea too!