I agree healing child, I think what I need now in my therapy is validatiopn and explanations. I mean old T said I think you come here every week looking for answers, well I dont have the answers...
I just wanted her to tell me I wasn't going crazy that my ex had problems, I wanted for her to listen to me and to help me, instead she would always say you in charge of your life, only you can change-this is true and I am changing but all I needed was for her to hear me, she wouldn't let me talk about my ex after a while too and this really pissed me off.