lookingforme

I have the same problem with my boyfriend, we don't talk about it, he doesn't know what to say. I too need comforting words at times, it's hard when things aren't said, and you know if it was said that you'd feel alot better. I often try to remind my man to try and talk, we have not alot of communication going around, he too uses actions, sometimes actions do speak louder then words but when you're dealing with depression or anxiety for that matter (because that's me) then you need that comfort.

I think the move will do you good, you may not think it will right now because you are in a rut, but it might surprise you, a fresh slate, that's always good. My depression is away for now, but I know it can creep up at any moment and that bothers me, since that is the thing that I am always working on right now...I want a new slate, but I can't do that living at home, that is why I'm trying to find a job where my boyfriend bought his house, which is only like 10mins away from here by car, and I don't drive so that is an issue as well, I cannot just take off somewhere when I need to, walks don't always do it for me. But it is key to exercise when you suffer from depression it gets your endorphines going, I know it makes me feel better if I did the workout on the elliptical, so your hubby might be right when he tells you to go for a walk, it likely will help you, it's just going out the door is the hard part.

I know where you are coming from, your hubby sounds like my guy...

Take care, and do try to keep busy even though that's hard to do, at least that will get your mind off things even if it's only for an hour.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

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