So not fair. The zoloft killed my sex drive. But I am glad it has not killed yours.

I am a forgetful person. I have ADD. I once said I would not wish forgetfulness on anyone. I also would not wish lack of sex drive and inability to cum on anyone.

As for bondage, thank you for sharing your thoughts on that. I do not think I will got there though. A past history of rape makes that an uneasy feeling. I am having difficulties "letting go" and receiving. I've never been w/ someone that I feel that safe with. Even though I am married I am in an unhappy relationship. I would like to know just once what GOOD SEX is like. I fear I am doomed to a life of less than satisfactory sex. Partly due to having to stay w/ the same person and partly due to my inability to let go. W/ out drugs or alcohol any idea how to have less difficulty letting go?