Thanks Logan - I hope the preggy hormones subside after little Xander comes along (cool name!)

You know, you and I could learn a lot about our relationships since we're each coming from our spouses' point of view. You could probably help me understand my husband better, and I could probably help you understand your wife better. I like hearing your perspective because my husband is kind of reserved, so sometimes I can only guess what's going through his mind. And you seem very angry with your wife about her lack of understanding, but I imagine that she's dealing with her own frustrations, which maybe you can keep an open mind to learning some compassion about.

Anyway, thank you very much for your feedback. It's really helping me a lot. High-five to you out there somewhere in Illinois!