I like my weekends when I'm working (middle school teacher), and the time it gives me to "recover," and get ready for another week. But...when I'm home for extended periods, I tend to waste my time, and get actually a bit depressed. So the stucture is good for me. As for holidays...well, I'm alone, since my one daughter is overseas. I'm like a "fifth wheel" at gatherings, and a bit out of place, usually feeling slighted afterwards. I think this year, I'll try something different...maybe take a trip? or go volunteer at a homeless shelter.